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This site is a collection of our personal kink writings and notes, organised by topic. Most of what appears here was intended to be educational material for our submissives or others we have interacted with in our kink journey. These writings are intended to be educational, often targeting common misconceptions, unhealthy ideas or common gaps in knowledge. They are, however, intended for those in our existing circle. While we endeavour to make these works accessible to everyone, some terms and ideas inevitably vary from one circle to the next, and you may find things that are confronting and/or uncomfortable for you. We encourage you to engage as best you can, but also to use your agency and step away should a topic make you uncomfortable.

We write across a range of topics including consent, sexual education, hypnosis, dominance and submission, safety, and many others. While there is no central theme across our work, many of the works here have roots in self improvement, philosophy and spirituality, and becoming better at kink in general. We also try to follow where questions and topics naturally lead us, rather than stay within the limits placed by discipline or initial topic.

This space isn't a textbook, and it isn't neutral in the way textbooks pretend to be. The ideas presented here are our working positions, informed, by careful thought, lived experience and academic research. They are presented with enough rigour to be taken seriously and enough humility to be revised should those positions be challenged. We would rather be useful and occasionally wrong then above fault. As such every piece here is always open to criticism, input, correction and most importantly challenge.

One final note, this space belongs to our entire system, and while some pieces the entire system claims credit for, some are personal. You may find opposing views, vastly different writing styles and sometimes even totally contradictory positions. Our system does not believe we should speak as a consensus, each of us is unique and so to are our thoughts on many topics.

Use the navigation to browse by section, or the search bar if you're looking for something specific. We suggest you start by learning about us.